Dating: Must HAVES and Must NOTS

This post is definitely going to be a work in progress, but I am reaching out to my friends and "facebook friends" to get their opinions on what qualities are most important in a partner as well as the qualities that are deal-breakers.  I think that it will be very interesting to see (potential) variations among the genders, but more so how my must haves/must nots stack up to everyone else! I definitely have my guess as to what their answers are going to show, but we shall see!

According to the ladies, MUST HAVE qualities include:

• Intelligent (3)
• Good job
• Enjoys music
• Well, um, equipped
• Motivated/goal oriented (3)
• Sense of humor (7)
• Able to give partner space/not clingy (2)
• Love God/Religious
• Wear Flatbills
• Hate the Red Sox (or any team that you dislike/hate)
• Liberal
• Atheist
• Want family
• Sexual Dynamo (2)
• Active (2)
• Likes dogs (2)
• Honest (2)
• Ethical
• Good communication skills
• Happy/like themselves
• Kind
• Polite
• Good cook
• Likes baseball
• Good tushy
• Reliable/there when you need them

MUST NOTs include:

• Emotionally stunted
• Rudeness (2)
• Judgmental
• Push-over
• Shy
• Socially inept 
• Clingy (3)
• Bad tippers

According to the gents, MUST HAVE qualities include:

• First name Quinn
• Last name Eggesiecker (haha, thanks C)
• Honesty
• Can commit to current partner without constantly looking for the "next best"
• All about her partner

MUST NOTs include: